Friends don’t understand: My sexual orientation never changed. I simply fell in love with a very unexpected person
has anyone else seen this? if my lesbian radfem sisters care to comment i would be grateful for their perspective. this, it feels, really dangerous. :(
Not a lesbian. Not one of us.
Also bisexuals keep shrieking for “more representation” but at the same time they say shit like this? Being a bisexual is not shameful. It might take a while for you to figure out your identity, but marrying a man is a definite proof that you’re NOT a lesbian.
But we can’t forget the women who have married men because of compulsory heterosexuality and later came out as lesbians.
Though this doesn’t seem to be the case here
Most of us have been with men at some point, because compulsory heterosexuality exists and men prey on us when we are vulnerable. But lesbians do not write articles telling the world about how their man smells good (ew, I don’t wanna know about how your man smells, men smell awful) and still try to convince us that they’re lesbians.
You like dick, you’re not a lesbian. It’s a pretty easy definition. This is a bisexual who denies she’s a bisexual because she still wants to hang out with the lesbian crowd. You can’t have the cake and eat it too, you either hang out with the lesbians (who don’t like men around) or you have your straight marriage and share your life and your bed with a man. Will this bisexual try to drag her gross-ass wildlife-killing (srsly she says the dude “went to Africa to hunt lions”) hubby to lesbian spaces? Chances are that yes, she will. Because entitled bisexual women try to pull off this kind of shit all the time.
Denying to see the difference between being a lesbian and a het-partnered bisexual is a pretty clear sign that she doesn’t give a shit about our boundaries and is not one of us.